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Cuddle Day





A squeeze here, a squeeze there, a giggle, I am in “Cuddle-land” Its quiet amazing that laughing over a random tweet started what we now call Cuddle Day. Before then, cuddling (making love) was any day we felt like it, even though that often meant any day she felt like it. When I want it, I have to bring out the Socrates in me. Serenading her, turning her on, drawing out her attention. When she wants it, I was a text away. I was an easy turn-on 😜.
Its been years, and now the mind games feel like an extended foreplay. Without them “cuddles“ feels like a very very long one night stand. So now when I get a text from her, I get into my Socrates mode, teasing her sexually, playful reference to her sensitive parts, the mind games don't stop until I arrive at her door.

Today, I insist on not having dinner. She likes to feed me and take care of me. But today is different, she is tired and I don’t want her to start cooking. I turned down the option of her serving me with the food I brought her. I made this special for her and for once, I will like to feed her. I am also in a hurry to love her😍. When I am in a hurry, I become anxious and anxiety and erection don’t work together. But the days between cuddles make me want her more and that plays into my anxieties. She is such a sweet lover. Managing that and not being a total douchebag is a game of will. As a result each cuddle is a unique experience, an exercise in developing patience, learning to care about how I make her feel, focusing on pleasing her. Its beautiful. Secretly, I call myself the orgasm whisperer because I mostly succeed in making her comeπŸ™ƒ. She surrenders her body to me completely.


She offered me her wine glass, I took a sip, the television is playing in the background, My Flatmates is on, she loves comedy series. She touched me and run her fingers down the length of my arm. She said the veins on my arm have popped up. I responded by telling her that the exercises I have been doing over the past few weeks have made them more pronounced. She kept moving her fingers up and down slowly, clearly enjoying the touch, exploring the network of two veins that branch out two inches from my elbow, one after the other. She said she likes them. I was home. 

My phone rings and I am jolted out of my daydream 😳, today is Tuesday, I am working from home as is most of the world and come Thursday/Cuddle Day, I will still be working from home, wishing I could be served wine and touched on the arm.

Corona Feelings by Cuddle-boy 

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  1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ ei cuddle boy. Why? Please you have to finish it oo. Ei

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  2. 😱, let me grab a seat, it’s getting hot in here.

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