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They say the devil finds work for the idle hands. Well in this case it found work for the idle mind. 


The other day I was thinking about this man I used to date. Thoughts of how this man used to make me feel. He was super romantic. He was the kind of man that knows how to take care of a woman. He would take care of your every need. 


My favourite thing about him was how he used to give me money. He would leave money at random places: under my pillow, in the kitchen, in the bathroom etc. imagine waking up and trying to lay your bed and you find money 🥰. I felt really pampered. I didn’t lack anything. 


Then we had a fight and I told him off. Not knowing this man doesn’t forgive foolish talk😭😭😭


I called him several times. He didn’t respond to any. I sent him messages on whatsapp, he ignored all. Ei but what aa did I do to this man? Na fight I fight “I no kill person”.


I quickly got a rebound to help with the pain. Three weeks later I heard from him with a warning. If I do that again he won’t forget me. I should have been happy right? I wasn’t. That long silence had affected my feelings for him. He didn’t excite my anymore. He tried for weeks, but I was over the whole thing. 


He had a key to my apartment. One day after work I realised he had gone to my apartment to leave me money. For the first time, his money didn’t mean anything to me. It didn't excite me. I called him and told him not to come to my place again. I also told him he can't buy me with his money (stifles laugh. if you want to buy me with money, you can!). I again told him not to contact me again. 


The following day, I changed my door locks and chopped his money 😂😂😂😂. 


After 2 years I find myself thinking of him. Ha! If not corona feelings I don’t know what this is. 



Corona feelings by Nikki

Comments

  1. Jack Reacher24 July 2020 at 18:24

    Free money dieee, e sweet paaa

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  2. Esallyn24 July 2020 at 19:45

    Hahahahahahahaaa he doesn’t forgive “foolish talk” got me rolling in the floor.

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  3. Bogusgirl24 July 2020 at 22:01

    😂😂😂 madam text him and see wai. Maybe he misses spending on you 😝

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